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February 27th, 2008 at 04:51 am

Saving log - $4 tip box
Spending log - $1.19 coffee, milk + $18 lunch

Lots of changes happening to our lunch group. Finnish friend and his partner are moving to Memphis, screenwriter friend is changing jobs - he'll be working across the street from lawyer friend and I. We had the dim sum lunch for Finnish friend and paid for it.

After lunch, I watched as lawyer friend checked the money in his ancient, broken down, falling-apart, held-together-by-the -cloth in the pocket, brown wallet. "You know, when I was in the Paris Flea Market I was very tempted to buy you a new wallet," I said.

And I was, but I thought better of it. I didn't even buy wallets for my DH, or rather, I have in the past, but I knew that unless the guy bought it, he wasn't going to use it. Even if it was the perfect size, perfect color, had the perfect number and type of pocket...even if it was exactly the same as the old wallet, except that it was new...probably wouldn't be used. The guy has to buy his own wallet, and it has to be a situation where any wallet is better than the old one.

Of course when you get a new wallet, you have to configure it - figure out which pocket gets what card, whether you fold the money and receipts, what order the money goes in. And since the new wallet is going to be a lot stiffer than the old one, the pockets are hard to use. I think that's the real hassle of the new wallet - new wallet, new configuration, lots of tinkering to get the maximal ease of use.

4 Responses to “wallets”

  1. Slowlygettingthere Says:
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    YES- Someone that understands why I can't buy my husband a wallet!

  2. HelpMeFriend Says:
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    I searched everywhere this winter for a wallet for my BF. I finally found one, spent over 10 bucks, and he said that he would have liked a different style.
    I wanted to scream!

  3. Mr. Meager Says:
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    Never buy a wallet for a guy. I have a stack wallets from many past gift giving seasons, that I never touch. When I needed a new wallet last year, I went out and bought my own, which will last me about 5 years. I guess because I see my sisters getting Coach bags as gifts, it seems reasonable that a guy would enjoy a wallet as a gift. I think eventually every one will learn this lesson some way or another.

    Another item is the money clip. Unless the guy is already using a money clip, he most likely isn't the money clip kid of guy. If he is using a money clip, they are pretty sturdy and will last forever. I have a friend that received a money clip as a gift and out of guilt, he holds his cash in it and places it in his wallet. Go figure.

  4. baselle Says:
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    DH is currently a money clip and a wallet guy. He has a flat bifold with a metal clip in the center for the bills.

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