At the risk of sounding and getting a ton of hits and disappointing the pervs out there, I'm talking about the cashless,
frictionless spending.Frugality is all about the friction.
Seems like all of society is out there telling you "make it easy" and get with it, while are all here to say "stop for just a second" and "don't be a spending sheep" and "do you really, really need or want it, upon a few seconds of further consideration?"
Contrast cashless buying with layaway. Primitive, but that less than instant consumerism can give you a different way to demonstrate gratitude and compassion.
December 17th, 2011 at 02:45 pm 1324133115
I know a number of higher income people using layaway because they are terrible budgeters. But you know, they are expecting large Christmas bonuses and tax refunds. So, they don't really need the help on any level. I'd just personally want to ensure I was helping someone a little more in need, rather than paying off some random layaway. I suppose that is my regional bias. I could always seek out a lower income area and increase my odds of truly helping someone. But, it is interesting. I just have too many experiences helping people I perceived were in need, who were not in need at all.
I understand from a pure "random act of kindness" standpoint, but I'd only recommend if you aren't basing the kindness on some idea of charity. It's definitely an interesting twist on RAK.
December 18th, 2011 at 12:57 am 1324169859
Still, better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick.
December 18th, 2011 at 04:49 am 1324183742